Violent video games. Pornography on the Internet. Scantily clad Bratz dolls. Britney Spears and degrading rap videos. Never before have children faced such an onslaught of violent and sexualized messages from so many sources.
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Have you asked yourself that question? I have, many times since leaving my career in television. I thought it would be a pleasure to leave the rat race and become a SAHM. I fantasized about baking cookies, walking my kids to the park, cooking family meals and reading (something other than scripts). After four years at home, I have done all of these things yet I'm still haunted by a sense of dissatisfaction.
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Growing up, my parents taught me to call adults by their last name. As a little girl, I just assumed everyone referred to adults this way, but over time I realized it might have something to do with my being raised a Yankee. When my family moved from New York to Virginia Beach, I realized that I was the only kid on the block that used such formality. All of my friends called adults by their first names (with a Mister or Miss in front of it). At first, it sounded like blasphemy when I heard my own parents being called Miss Cheryl and Mr. Bill. I never was able to bring myself to change.
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It was not a Mother of the Year moment. My husband and I were stuck in a driving rainstorm with our preschooler and our infant. No umbrella. No raincoats. Our 4-year-old was delighted, of course, and cheerfully pointed out that, "Hey Mommy, we're the only family without an umbrella!" Our 9-month-old, strapped in the stroller and drenched from the waist down, looked at us like she was about ready to ask for replacement parents, if only she could speak.
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It has officially happened. I've started lying to my son, and to boot, manipulating him as well. In the past, I have sat on my moral mountain judging others for telling little white lies to their children. But that was before I became a mom, and now, well now it is different, I have joined the ranks and become a teller of lies.
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One of the great tragedies of modern life is the loss of the extended family presence in everyday life. An important system in human society, the extended family is no longer a certainty in a global economy that moves people all over the world.
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Q: I have recently met my ex-husband's new fiancee. They plan to marry in a few months. My ex has primary custody of our daughter, age 7. I remarried a year ago.
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Dear Mr. Dad: My son loves video games and spends a ton of time playing on them. Some are sports games, but others are fairly violent war-related games. I've heard the warnings about violent games breeding violent behavior, and I'm worried. Should I be?
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Welcome to Parenting 101, a two-part introduction to the fundamentals of effective child rearing. Upon passing this course, which will conclude with next week's column, you will have acquired what it takes to raise children who are mannerly, self-disciplined, and do their best in school. As you will see, the fundamentals in question do not include various clever means of manipulating reward and punishment. If to this point, parenting has not been a relatively simple, easy-going affair, your problem is your attitude, your point of view, in which case, you signed up for the right course!
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Going on vacation? Maggie Derblay, fitness director for One & Only Resorts, has some tips to keep your family healthy while you're visiting a resort.
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Julia is the independent one, the sister who takes charge of her fellow triplets - like a little mommy, says Dr. Amy Riley, the real mother of this well-behaved group of 4-year-olds. Vivian, or Vivi, is the smallest, a dainty girl who likes to wear skirts.
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When the holidays roll around, so do the opportunities for community service. If you decided to get involved in a service project with your kids, here are some recommendations from the experts at KinderCare Learning Centers:
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So I'm feeling weird about the whole nanny-share, full-time care thing we're starting in January. We've found this semester that the 3 { days of care we currently have (8-5 Monday, Wednesday and Friday; 9-1 Saturday), is basically enough to cover our teaching responsibilities (prep, teach, grade), admin work (mostly Kevin's, although I have some stuff), and household needs. But it leaves no time for math research or writing fiction. I've squeezed out a bit of time here and there, as has Kevin, but we're both really starting to feel the need for more time. Hence, turning to a nanny-share so we can afford full-time care (probably 8-4 Monday through Friday). We like the other family, and love our current nanny, so I think this will work relatively smoothly. That's all good.
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As a single dad with half-time custody, I straddle the worlds of parenting and dating. One night I'm helping my son with math homework, or discussing Hawthorne's use of light and darkness with my daughter. The next night I'm on a date with a woman I just met, wondering if we'll hook up for a night, or even go out again. (Note to married people: be happy and grateful you have someone to sleep with every night!)
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Two years ago, Miami author Laurie Friedman read an item in The Miami Herald about Herman and Roma Rosenblat, a Miami-Dade couple with a unique how-they-met story. She wanted to know more.
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